I have to work at night so my wife doesn't disturb me

 I find it easier to work during the night or early in the morning as I can work undisturbed. My wife cannot tell me what I can or cannot say, do or think as she tries to do if I do anything during the daytime. I guess that comes from the terrible "education" she received in China as a child. I must try not to blame her personally. She is as much a victim of the Chinese system as anybody else. She has told me that nobody in her family is a member of the CCP but I have no way of knowing whether that's true or a lie. She does lie to me sometimes and she mistrusts what I say, despite my self-evident honesty. I guess her suspicion of other people comes from being part of the Chinese community in Barceona!